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Family Portrait

Counselling
Families

Overview of course content for 'Counselling families with confidence'. A 6 day foundation programme for counsellors and allied professionals

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Day 1

Form an understanding of what constitutes a family and viewing the family through an ecological and temporal timeframe.

​Aims

  1. Draw up a group agreement and define groups’ goals.  

  2. Help participants to gain an understanding of what a family system is. 

  3. Introduce the concept of family as an entity that it is not static but that evolves through time. 

  4. To introduce participants to ecological versus individuals concepts of development. 

  5. To gain an understanding of “life cycle” processes and their possible impact on the family. 

  6. Introduce the concept of a genogram as a tool to track the family history and consider its role in the assessment process. 

  7. Understand the difference between drawing genograms with adults and children. 

Topics

  • What is a family? 

  • Individuals and ecological model of development 

  • Life cycle 

  • Genograms (what should be included in a genogram and genogram format/symbols) 

  • Group exercise 

Day 2

Contracts and assessments within a family context and circular questions as a mean to understand the system.

​Aims

  1. Understand what needs to be included in a contract when working with families and the concepts of boundaries and confidentiality when working in a family context. 

  2. To draw a distinction between forming a therapeutic alliance between individuals and families. 

  3. To enable counsellors to conduct a family assessment and understand what they need to consider in their assessment of families. 

  4. To explore Milan’s approach in relation to assessment through the concepts of curiosity, hypothesising and circularity. 

  5. Where to punctuate a story, and our influence in the representation of the system (delineation of first versus second order cybernetics). 

  6. Help counsellors understand the difference between circular versus linear causality and its application in the assessment process. 

  7. Provide theoretical knowledge about circular questions. 

  8. Provide counsellors with the opportunity to practice circular questions. 

  9. Allow participants to practice the construction of genograms.  

Topics

  • Building therapeutic alliance with multiple participants 

  • Assessment’s priorities and structure (what are the questions that it is important to ask?) 

  • Circular questions  

  • Genograms construction 

  • Group exercises 

Day 3

Introduce different theoretical approaches and techniques and explore models of change/ formulation through Alan Carr’s model. 

​Aims

  1. Introduce some of the main theoretical approaches (structural, functional, Milan, solution focused, narrative) and concepts (e.g. triangulation) shared between different family approaches (e.g. reframing, positive connotation, the miracle question, externalisation, unique outcomes). 

  2. Introduce Alan Carr’s 3 column model and its integration within a collaborative formulation of the family problem. 

Topics

  • Main theoretical models and related techniques 

  • The functionality of the problem within the system 

  • The role of strength within formulations 

  • Safe Uncertainty versus Unsafe Certainty in relation to formulations 

  • Alan Carr’s 3 column model as a way to conceptualise the family system 

  • Group exercise (student evaluation and reflection on Alan Carr’s case study) 

Day 4

The therapist’s reflexivity, awareness of position of the self within the system and places of power. The collaborative and dialogical model as a way of being with families. 

​Aims

  1. Consider the importance of counsellors’ self-reflexivity and its impact on the family.  

  2. Facilitate this reflexivity by placing a focus on the location of power within the counselling context and family environment and facilitate this reflexivity through the concepts of social graces and intersectionality. 

  3. Emphasise the exploration of the collaborative and dialogical model drawing similarities with Roger’s person centred model, to enable counsellors to ground their practice within this approach. 

  4. Conversation as an intervention to dissolve problems. 

Topics

  • Self-reflexivity 

  • Ethics 

  • Social graces 

  • Intersectionality 

  • Collaborative/dialogical model 

  • Group exercises 

Day 5

How to work therapeutically with different families experiencing different problems.  

​Aims

  1. To assist the counsellor to develop a culturally sensitive practice and frame diversity and diverse problems within the modernist view of multiple realities. 

  2. Equip counsellors with tools that will enable them to work with different family problems (e.g. anorexia, divorce, parental conflicts, enlarged families, domestic violence). 

  3. Understand the differences within the notion of what constitutes societal norms/discourses. 

  4. Working with diversity (considering families through a cultural lens, same sex families, etc). 

  5. Working with children in a family context.  

  6. Working using creativity (e.g. family sculpting, the river of life). 

Topics

  • AFT code of conduct and ethical guidelines 

  • Foucault’s social discourses 

  • Social constructionism and the construction of reality 

  • Tools and techniques to work with different issues (e.g. child centred practice)  

  • Safeguarding while working with diverse problems 

  • The role of hope in the therapeutic process  

  • Group exercises 

Day 6

Ending with families and opportunities to practice the acquired knowledge. 

​Aims

  1. To review the different stages of family work (initial, middle, and ending phase) and reflect on ending with families. 

  2. To provide the group with an opportunity to practice the gained skills. 

  3. To reflect on personal endings. 

  4. To offer the group an opportunity to evaluate their learning and reflect on how they will integrate the acquired knowledge into their practice. 

Topics

  • Initial/middle/end structure of therapy 

  • Ending checklist to use with families 

  • Group discussion 

  • Group exercises 

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